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Are you unable to leave a love relationship even though it gives you more pain than joy? Your judgment and self-respect tell you to end it, but still, to your dismay, you hang on. You are addicted--to a person. Now there is an insightful, step-by-step guide to breaking that addiction--and surviving the split. Drawing on dozens of provocative case histories, psychotherapist Howard Helpern explains to you:
Why you can get addicted to a person.
Why and how you may try to deceive yourself. ("He really loves me, he just doesn't know how to show it.")
How you can recognize the symptoms of a bad relationship.
How to deal with the power moves and guilt trips your partner uses to hold you.
Why strong feelings of jealousy do not mean you are "in love."
How to get through the agonizing breakup period--without going back.
How not to get caught in such a painful relationship again.
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2. Obsessive Love - When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go
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Do you yearn for someone who is not physically or emotionally available to you?
Do you believe that if you love him enough he will have to love you?
When you feel insecure, does it drive you only to want her more?
Do you find yourself phoning repeatedly or waiting long hours for the phone to ring?
Do you wish someone would let go of you?
Does an ex-lover or ex-spouse refuse to believe that it’s over?
Do you receive unwanted phone calls, letters, presents, or visits?
Is this pursuit of you creating so much anxiety that it affects your physical or emotional well-being?
In this invaluable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward presents vivid case histories as well as the real-life voices of men and women caught in the grip of obsessive passion. Whether you’re an obsessive lover or the target of such an obsession, here is a proven, step-by-step program that shows you how to recognize the “connection compulsion,” what causes it, and how to break its hold on your life so that you can go on to build healthy, lasting, and pain-free relationships.
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3. Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You
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It is practical help, written with the compassion of someone who has gone through it, to guide you through those darkest hours and beyond. Like the best kind of friend, who is there for you even when you are not there for yourself, one who tells you the truth even when you don't want to hear it, her no-nonsense approach to both understanding where you are and guiding you with how to deal with it, is invaluable. There is no fluff here. Heart break and betrayal are soul destroying and the grieving and the healing processes need to be honoured.
Ms. Elliott provides the tools you need when you are in no place to think for yourself, the tools you need to get your life and yourself back, and the tools you need to navigate a better, more beautiful future for yourself when the time is right. And in the end she leaves you to spread your own wings and fly again - the best kind of teacher. She is an awesome woman, and this is an awesome book.
I will never let go of this one. I want it on my bookshelf, just in case. Not that I'm expecting ever to be in that space again. I can honestly say since coming across Susan Elliott's work I have become stronger, clearer, got back into my own life, and taken complete responsibility for my healing. And although I may suffer heartbreak again, I will not lose myself in the process.
I've not written a review before, but I can honestly say this helped me get through this like nothing else. Actually... not just get through it, I'm learning to thrive and really live my life. So, if you're going through a heartbreak, or know someone who is, get this. And go visit her blog. All the best to you."
Annae, Australia (customer at Amazon)
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4. How to Fall out of Love: How to Free Yourself of Love That Hurts and Find the Love That Heals...
FREE YOURSELF OF LOVE THAT HURTS--AND FIND THE LOVE THAT HEALS!
Love is the most beautiful of feelings, except when it turns to pain. This is a healing book, one t hat can help people overcome the pain of loving someone who does not or cannot them back. If you--or someone you care about--are struggling to recover from the loss of a lover, or to end a dead-end affair, this will come as a godsend. Nationally renowned Dr. Debora Phillips give you the complete proven program that lets you:
-say goodbye to jealousy
-diminish, then dismiss a destructive love
-rebuild your inner strength and confidence
-discover and enjoy a new love that is right for you.
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4. How to Fall out of Love: How to Free Yourself of Love That Hurts and Find the Love That Heals...
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Love is the most beautiful of feelings, except when it turns to pain. This is a healing book, one t hat can help people overcome the pain of loving someone who does not or cannot them back. If you--or someone you care about--are struggling to recover from the loss of a lover, or to end a dead-end affair, this will come as a godsend. Nationally renowned Dr. Debora Phillips give you the complete proven program that lets you:
-say goodbye to jealousy
-diminish, then dismiss a destructive love
-rebuild your inner strength and confidence
-discover and enjoy a new love that is right for you.
Buy "How to Fall out of Love: How to Free Yourself of Love That Hurts and Find the Love That Heals..." at Amazon now!
